Blow job techniques on uncut guys

November 28, 2007 2:08 AM

What are some oral sex techniques that apply specifically to uncircumcised men?

I met a guy a couple weeks ago that I've been getting to know better as a friend and we have a ton of sexual chemistry. He's a few years older than me and has had more sexual partners, so I'd really like to make myself stand out and give him a mind blowing (no pun intended) experience.

I've read a thread or two on blow job techniques and they've given me ideas (though I'm already pretty confident in my skills), but it's been a while since I've been with an uncut guy. So I guess I was wondering if there's any tips you guys (or girls) have specifically for the uncircumcised male. Failing specific tips on that, any ideas are good. I want this to be an experience he'll remember (preferably in a good way).

Thanks in advance.

posted by purelibertine to sports, hobbies, & recreation (11 answers total)

Something to please every man here
posted by missmagenta at 2:31 AM on November 28, 2007 [1 favorite]

Thanks missmagenta =P It's always interesting reading guides like that. Lots of the same stuff but usually a new idea here or there. I just wish I could find a guide specifically for uncircumcised guys.
posted by purelibertine at 3:59 AM on November 28, 2007

Previously asked and answered.

There is no amazing magical technique that will only work with intact guys. The only practical difference I've ever found is that intact men are more senstive, and require less, uh, suction. But people are all different, and my sampling is not scientific, so YMMV. Best to ask your partner.
posted by DarlingBri at 4:22 AM on November 28, 2007

I just wish I could find a guide specifically for uncircumcised guys.

Sorry, cant help there. I've never even seen a circumcised penis so I wouldn't know the differences.
posted by missmagenta at 4:27 AM on November 28, 2007

Oops, thanks DarlingBri. I did a search and saw the title of that thread and thought it was about an under experienced guy who happened to be uncut and was insecure or something. My internet has been acting up so I was being lazy and didn't click on it to find out.
posted by purelibertine at 4:36 AM on November 28, 2007

Cure for laziness: My answer from previous thread:

Well, there's a bit of skin available to pinch/scrape that you might not be used to, so be mindful, but you don't need to be nearly as delicate as fvox13 seems to think, at least in my experience.

Pull skin back. Continue as normal. Please to not stare in horror or be too delicate or panic or anything like that. Those would be BadThings™.

Make sure he isn't CRAZY sensitive or something, since that would be rough, but otherwise, don't worry about it. I haven't had a girl have a problem figuring things out or complain about having to alter their technique at all. Plus, it's probably considerably easier to give a hand job. Bonus!
posted by disillusioned at 12:59 AM on February 10 [+] [!]
posted by disillusioned at 4:39 AM on November 28, 2007

lol thanks disillusioned.

Am I allowed to do follow up questions in the same thread? Anyone know of anything one can drink to make you salivate more? I know there's flavored lube out there but I figure other options might be nice. I was thinking orange juice...
posted by purelibertine at 5:34 AM on November 28, 2007

You might put something like a small rock in your mouth. Your mouth will produce more saliva to dissolve it (for digestion), but since it's a rock it won't dissolve. Make sure to get a smooth one.
posted by philomathoholic at 11:45 AM on November 28, 2007

disillusioned, no offense but being uncut is one thing, but being a gay man who's encountered many dozens of cocks from the other side is another. Your experience is not the same as any man's, cut or uncut. Hand jobs are easier for YOU presumably because you don't have a tight foreskin, but I've been with guys who fir for this reason needed lube even moreso than the circumsized often do There are cut guys who spew out so much pre-cum that they don't need lube. There are uncut guys who are so non-sensitive that you can nibble away. There are cut guys (I'm one of them) who finds teeth pure torture.

You CANNOT GENERALISE ABOUT THE PENIS. This is one reason why the myth about gay men being better at sucking cock is untrue. Men know what THEY like. They don't know what their partners, of whatever gender, like unless they communicate with them. This is what purelibertine needs to do, not to ask for one-size-fits-all tips.
posted by ethnomethodologist at 11:52 AM on November 28, 2007

disillusioned: "My answer from previous thread ... Pull skin back. Continue as normal."

You know, it's funny...I read that older thread, saw this comment, and immediately thought "wow, I wish I could reply to that terrible advice, but the thread's too old." I come back to this thread, and...here's my chance!

If you take disillusioned's advice and apply to, say, me... you'll give me possibly the worst the blowjob I've ever had.

1) My foreskin is a little tight; pull it back all the way and it will be a constant source of discomfort that will completely distract from the rest of your efforts.
2) Because it's protected by the foreskin, the head is really sensitive, and too much direct stimulation can start to feel awkward.
3) I'd like it if you involved the foreskin in the blowjob please, instead of tossing it aside like it were merely in the way. The foreskin has lots of good nerve endings in it too, so take advantage of it -- lick it, stick your tongue in it, tug on it (the underside, and gently please).

But really, ethnomethodologist's advice above is the only ultimate truth -- you cannot generalize about the penis. Everyone's different.
posted by CrayDrygu at 3:19 PM on November 28, 2007

This answer from the previous thread was a really good one. This line is especially important:

If your guy is uncut, take it slowly, and let the forskin retract/not retract as it sees fit.

Some guys have a tight foreskin that's not going to be pulled back very far, some guys will be able to pull it back very far. This is where watching your dude masturbate could be informative, because you'll be able to tell how much he pulls it back.
posted by !Jim at 8:10 PM on November 28, 2007