How do I help my girlfriend know what she wants?
July 19, 2007 11:00 PM Subscribe
How do I get my girlfriend to "know her own feelings" about me?
posted by macsigler to Human Relations (55 answers total) 4 users marked this as a favorite
Well it's kinda weird, I'm courting this one girl who I think is really great (I'm totally in love with her), and I think she really likes me too, but is just "unsure with herself." She's talked about having "personal walls" or something like that, and we've talked about it, and the more we spend time the closer we seem to get, and I've told her my feelings for her, that I love her very dearly, but she says she doesn't want to say it back if she's not sure of herself. I agree, but would sure like to help her know what it is she's feeling!
Also, lately I've just got this overwhelming sense that I just need to kiss her, but she's mentioned in the past that she's uncomfortable kissing people unless she's practically engaged. The only real advice I've gotten from others is, "Dude, get a new girl!" but I really, really adore her and don't think I could ever find another quite like her.
So is there anything I can do or am I just a hopelessly lost romantic guy? :P