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	<title>Comments on: Help me not be sketchy</title>
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	<pubDate>Sun, 22 Apr 2007 14:20:27 -0800</pubDate>
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		<title>Question: Help me not be sketchy</title>
		<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/61111/Help-me-not-be-sketchy</link>	
		<description>Job application ethics question. A job I started last month isn&apos;t working out, so I recently interviewed for a job at another firm. The prospective employer wants me to submit an application form in which I list my current employer (including my current supervisor&apos;s name and contact info). It would save me a lot of angst if I could leave my 2-month-old current job off this form entirely. Is it OK if I do that? &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Of course, if you Google my name I show up in the staff listing of the 2-month-old job. So it wouldn&apos;t be hard for my prospective employers to find out where I&apos;m working. But I&apos;m concerned if I list my current employer that my prospective employer will be more likely to contact them. Also, if it&apos;s possible not to emphasize that I&apos;m trying to ditch my current job after such a short time, I&apos;d like to. (So far I&apos;ve been able to gloss over what I&apos;m doing at the moment because I recently graduated from grad school.)&lt;br&gt;
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So in this space on the application form for &quot;current/most recent employer&quot; I&apos;d prefer to list the job I had before leaving for grad school. Would this be OK? Or sketchy? (If it would be sketchy, I won&apos;t do it. I kinda feel like it might be, but I&apos;m wondering if my moral scruples are going overboard on this.)</description>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 22 Apr 2007 13:56:27 -0800</pubDate>
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		<title>By: cerebus19</title>
		<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/61111/Help-me-not-be-sketchy#920138</link>	
		<description>It seems a bit sketchy to me, especially since it seems pretty likely that the prospective employer will find out where you&apos;re working anyway.  I think it&apos;d be far easier to explain that the job you&apos;ve got isn&apos;t working out than to explain why you lied to them about its existence.</description>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 22 Apr 2007 14:20:27 -0800</pubDate>
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		<title>By: hazelshade</title>
		<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/61111/Help-me-not-be-sketchy#920140</link>	
		<description>Thanks, carebus -- confirming what I&apos;d suspected.</description>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 22 Apr 2007 14:23:43 -0800</pubDate>
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		<title>By: CliffDiving44</title>
		<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/61111/Help-me-not-be-sketchy#920141</link>	
		<description>I agree with cerebus19, although it wouldn&apos;t be lying to them.. it&apos;d be dishonest, imho. Just explain it to them, I&apos;m sure they&apos;ll understand.</description>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 22 Apr 2007 14:24:10 -0800</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Wroksie</title>
		<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/61111/Help-me-not-be-sketchy#920145</link>	
		<description>It is extremely uncommon for potential employers to call your current employer unless you give specific permission for them to do so. If you want to make absolutely sure that it doesn&apos;t happen, simply tell the prospective employer that you prefer that your current employer not be approached for a reference because you don&apos;t want it known that you are seeking other employment. They will understand, unless they are crazy, and then you don&apos;t want to work there anyway.</description>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 22 Apr 2007 14:29:55 -0800</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Wroksie</title>
		<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/61111/Help-me-not-be-sketchy#920153</link>	
		<description>Also, realize that most companies are extremely sensitive about anything that can get them in trouble legally, and contacting your employer without your permission is something that you get get in a lawyer-fuss over if you wanted to. Not that you would want to, of course, but it&apos;s very likely that the company has policies in place to prevent any kind of lawyer-fuss, so you probably have nothing to worry about. For similar legal-paranoia reasons, even if your current employer *is* contacted, it is extremely unlikely that you will get a bad reference. Neutral, perhaps, but not bad. Most places these days won&apos;t give anything other than dates of employment when asked for a reference, just because of a pathological fear of lawsuits.</description>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 22 Apr 2007 14:36:21 -0800</pubDate>
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		<title>By: acoutu</title>
		<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/61111/Help-me-not-be-sketchy#920164</link>	
		<description>Unless you have a habit of quitting jobs every 2 months, an employer would probably prefer to see that you&apos;re employed as opposed to unemployed. It&apos;s easier to get a job when you have a job. Most employers recognize that jobs aren&apos;t always a good fit.</description>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 22 Apr 2007 14:53:57 -0800</pubDate>
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		<title>By: ikkyu2</title>
		<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/61111/Help-me-not-be-sketchy#920209</link>	
		<description>&quot;Current employer&quot; means who you&apos;re working for now.&lt;br&gt;
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If you think about it for even a second or two, submitting a job application means that either you&apos;re not working now or that your current job isn&apos;t a right fit for you.  They already know that.  Let them know, either in an interview or a cover letter, that you&apos;d prefer your current job not be contacted.  They may not be bound to honor this request, but most folks and places will.&lt;br&gt;
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Remember, they&apos;re not out to screw over their potential employment applicants; it&apos;s against their best interests to do so, and if they do it enough they&apos;ll never be able to hire anybody.</description>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 22 Apr 2007 16:07:46 -0800</pubDate>
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		<title>By: hazelshade</title>
		<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/61111/Help-me-not-be-sketchy#920318</link>	
		<description>Thank you, guys, for helping me not be sketchy :) The advice and reassurance is much appreciated!</description>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 22 Apr 2007 19:08:54 -0800</pubDate>
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