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  	<title>Question: Help me make a good impression!</title>
  	<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/60025/Help-me-make-a-good-impression</link>	
  	<description>I&apos;m going on my first business trip (4 days in Philly) where I will be visiting another branch of the company and be trained on a new program.  I need tips so I make a good impression and don&apos;t screw things up.</description>
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  	<pubDate>Thu, 05 Apr 2007 14:48:21 -0800</pubDate>
  	<dc:creator>klwatts</dc:creator>
	
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  	<title>By: substrate</title>
  	<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/60025/Help-me-make-a-good-impression#903097</link>	
  	<description>You will probably get the opportunity to be wined and dined. Accept it, but don&apos;t overindulge in the wine portion. Make sure you&apos;re always on time and prepared.</description>
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  	<pubDate>Thu, 05 Apr 2007 15:13:13 -0800</pubDate>
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  	<title>By: WetherMan</title>
  	<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/60025/Help-me-make-a-good-impression#903117</link>	
  	<description>And when substrate says be &apos;on time&apos;, he really means, &apos;be early&apos;.&lt;br&gt;
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Traveling to new places almost always means unexpected delays, so leave extra time.  You can always read the paper in the car for a few minutes if you don&apos;t want to stand around by yourself.</description>
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  	<pubDate>Thu, 05 Apr 2007 15:34:24 -0800</pubDate>
  	<dc:creator>WetherMan</dc:creator>
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  	<title>By: twistofrhyme</title>
  	<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/60025/Help-me-make-a-good-impression#903126</link>	
  	<description>make lots of friendly eye contact (eyebrows up, slight smile)&lt;br&gt;
always greet everyone in the room&lt;br&gt;
be extra-nice to underlings&lt;br&gt;
try to remember everyone&apos;s names &amp;amp; say them a lot&lt;br&gt;
send thank you cards / emails afterwards</description>
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  	<pubDate>Thu, 05 Apr 2007 15:42:10 -0800</pubDate>
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  	<title>By: hifiparasol</title>
  	<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/60025/Help-me-make-a-good-impression#903153</link>	
  	<description>I&apos;ve always found that a good way to impress people is to show that you know something about some aspect of them; since you&apos;ll be in Philly, maybe research it a little bit, and if conversations lull during social times, ask a few educated questions based on what you learned about the city (I&apos;m from there, so feel free to email me (check my profile) if you want to know a little more about the city).&lt;br&gt;
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Better yet, if you know something more specific about one or more of the people you&apos;ll be dealing with, you can follow the same protocol.&lt;br&gt;
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The same rules might apply to whatever new program you&apos;re learning; if you can look up some info on it ahead of time and familiarize yourself with some of the ideas/talk/reviews surrounding it, you&apos;ll look like someone in the know. &lt;br&gt;
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The above suggestion of a post-meeting TY card is also great advice.</description>
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  	<pubDate>Thu, 05 Apr 2007 16:01:13 -0800</pubDate>
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  	<title>By: allkindsoftime</title>
  	<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/60025/Help-me-make-a-good-impression#903174</link>	
  	<description>Get good sleep at night so you&apos;re not tired during the day - don&apos;t have a huge carby lunch eitehr or the mid-afternoon will be rough.  Drink a lot of water throughout the day.&lt;br&gt;
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If you&apos;re getting in the night before, drive the route from your hotel to the office so you&apos;re familiar with it and not trying to figure it out in the morning.&lt;br&gt;
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Don&apos;t be afraid to stay quiet - a closed mouth gathers no feet.  That said, ask questions when you have them to a) keep abreast of the content and b) show that you&apos;re engaged and want to learn.&lt;br&gt;
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Keep your cell-phone on vibrate and take calls only on break.  Take good notes, MS Onenote is great for this if you have it, but a pad and paper works great too.</description>
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  	<pubDate>Thu, 05 Apr 2007 16:24:01 -0800</pubDate>
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  	<title>By: voltairemodern</title>
  	<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/60025/Help-me-make-a-good-impression#903299</link>	
  	<description>&lt;i&gt;If you&apos;re getting in the night before, drive the route from your hotel to the office so you&apos;re familiar with it and not trying to figure it out in the morning.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br&gt;
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Seconded.  This is very important when visiting new cities on business.</description>
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  	<pubDate>Thu, 05 Apr 2007 18:43:54 -0800</pubDate>
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  	<title>By: WetherMan</title>
  	<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/60025/Help-me-make-a-good-impression#903431</link>	
  	<description>&lt;i&gt;Seconded. This is very important when visiting new cities on business.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br&gt;
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Third. If you have a personal car and are not relying on hotel transportation, driving out there the day before is very useful.&lt;br&gt;
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I also second the recommendation not to overindulge in the &apos;wine&apos; portion of the trip. It&apos;s going to be tempting, especially since you&apos;re probably on an expense account, but you&apos;ll make a much better impression by being conservative with what you order.</description>
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  	<pubDate>Thu, 05 Apr 2007 21:09:08 -0800</pubDate>
  	<dc:creator>WetherMan</dc:creator>
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  	<title>By: filmgeek</title>
  	<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/60025/Help-me-make-a-good-impression#903436</link>	
  	<description>Key question to ask of any philaelphian: Favorite place to get a cheesesteak?&lt;br&gt;
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No matter what they answer, btw, the cheesesteak will be excellent.  They&apos;ll go on about it for a bit - but they&apos;ll have an opinion.</description>
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  	<pubDate>Thu, 05 Apr 2007 21:12:38 -0800</pubDate>
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  	<title>By: Soda-Da</title>
  	<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/60025/Help-me-make-a-good-impression#903472</link>	
  	<description>twistofrhyme is so right about being nice to underlings. They&apos;re the ones that run the operation so be nice to the receptionists, admins, security guards, etc. Learn their names, say hello and goodbye to them. It&apos;s especially nice at the end of the trip to stop by anyone that helped you and thank them for their time. An email or a note would be very nice.&lt;br&gt;
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A little of this courtesy goes a long way. I work for a big company and after we have trainees my boss goes around the office asking about their comportment. He makes mental notes about their behaviors in case they ever apply for a promotion.</description>
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  	<pubDate>Thu, 05 Apr 2007 21:52:17 -0800</pubDate>
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  	<title>By: sarahmelah</title>
  	<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/60025/Help-me-make-a-good-impression#903710</link>	
  	<description>This might seem obvious, but try to build in some alone time. My first business trip I was with &apos;people to impress&apos; the ENTIRE time, and by the end I was shaking and weak with exhaustion. Maybe that&apos;s just me, but I found it surprisingly draining.</description>
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  	<pubDate>Fri, 06 Apr 2007 07:19:03 -0800</pubDate>
  	<dc:creator>sarahmelah</dc:creator>
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  	<title>By: bottlebrushtree</title>
  	<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/60025/Help-me-make-a-good-impression#903847</link>	
  	<description>If its your first trip, you may not have had to produce a travel expense report before. Save ALL your receipts, put them in a fodler or something so they don&apos;t end up all wrinkled. Keep your boarding passes or trip coupons if you can, you will usually need them for the expense report.&lt;br&gt;
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If you have business cards, bring a lot more than you think you may need. It always sucks to run out. &lt;br&gt;
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Write down everyone&apos;s name if you have to. &lt;br&gt;
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Find something fun to do at night if you have time.&lt;br&gt;
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Always bring a swimsuit on trips, you never know when you&apos;ll get a chance to hit the pool!&lt;br&gt;
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If they have wifi in the building, don&apos;t end up surfing the net away all day during training.</description>
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  	<pubDate>Fri, 06 Apr 2007 09:27:43 -0800</pubDate>
  	<dc:creator>bottlebrushtree</dc:creator>
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