Help me stop calling her!
July 25, 2006 12:15 PM Subscribe
Give me some ideas to help me avoid calling someone. I am grieving the break-up of a long-term relationship. I dont know if the relationship can be salvaged at any point in the future but if it can be it will only be after we have some space and time apart. What can I do to dampen down the overwhelming desire to call her?
posted by anonymous to human relations (33 answers total) 12 users marked this as a favorite
I have been speaking to her every day for nearly ten years. Even when we have been in different countries we have always spoke together. We shared all sorts of experiences together: from the humdrum to the most uplifting and we have always had the other person to bounce back on. But I know that if we are to get any perspective and to move on either together or apart we need to get some space. But I have an overwhelming desire to hear her voice. Its tearing me apart inside. Practical advice would be most appreciated.