Is this quote apocryphal?If not, where specifically is it from? (Lacan)
May 21, 2022 11:30 PM Subscribe
I was listening to an audiobook of Stephen Mitchell's Can Love Last (sounds like a silly self help book, is a well regarded book by a psychoanalyst) and he quoted Jacques Lacan as saying (I thought) "Love is giving something you don't have to someone you don't know."
I googled some. It seems either I misheard or he misquoted. The version that is coming up is "Love is giving something you don't have to someone who doesn't want it." I think "Aimer--c'est donner ce q'uon na pas a quelqu'un qui n'en veut pas."
But I just keep seeing people say he said it and don't know the source. I'm slightly afraid it could be the internet doing a slightly hoitier and toitier version of its usual routine of "Life is a sport--drink it up!" --The Buddha.
The line does intrigue me in a perverse way so I'm curious about it and its context, even though what little I have read of Lacan otherwise I find bewildering.
Anyone know?
I googled some. It seems either I misheard or he misquoted. The version that is coming up is "Love is giving something you don't have to someone who doesn't want it." I think "Aimer--c'est donner ce q'uon na pas a quelqu'un qui n'en veut pas."
But I just keep seeing people say he said it and don't know the source. I'm slightly afraid it could be the internet doing a slightly hoitier and toitier version of its usual routine of "Life is a sport--drink it up!" --The Buddha.
The line does intrigue me in a perverse way so I'm curious about it and its context, even though what little I have read of Lacan otherwise I find bewildering.
Anyone know?
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