Sending something other than flowers
March 6, 2019 11:17 AM   Subscribe

My brother has to have emergency surgery on Friday. I live in another country and can't be there but want to send him something so he knows he is in my thoughts. He wouldn't appreciate flowers as a "good luck / thinking of you" gesture.... what is a good equivalent for a man that can be sent today and will be received tomorrow?
posted by JenThePro to Grab Bag (8 answers total) 3 users marked this as a favorite
 
I've sent fruit baskets and cut fruit arrangements in similar circumstances and they were well-received.
posted by carrioncomfort at 11:20 AM on March 6, 2019 [5 favorites]


Food delivery - if he lives in the US in a major city, this can easily be done.
posted by heathrowga at 11:21 AM on March 6, 2019 [6 favorites]


When I was in a different country than my sister and her kids and needed to show my love, I ordered her a couple pizzas and got her a month-long subscription to a movie service so she could recover at home and veg out with some movies and TV.
posted by Merinda at 11:29 AM on March 6, 2019 [2 favorites]


Depending on the surgery he may not be able to eat regular foods before or after...
posted by greta simone at 11:42 AM on March 6, 2019 [4 favorites]


I've given gift certificates for frozen meal services. This is good for people recuperating at home, and the person can order whatever he/she wants. The only one I've used is Veestro, which was a big hit. It's vegan, but there are others that aren't.

Also, Zingerman's delivers food throughout the US. Their food and their customer service are both exceptional. I know someone who worked taking phone orders for them, and employees are really expected to help in whatever way they can. They even have a Get Well box.
posted by FencingGal at 11:43 AM on March 6, 2019 [1 favorite]


A month subscription to some "unlimited" reading material like Marvel Unlimited or Kindle Unlimited?
posted by Rock Steady at 12:15 PM on March 6, 2019 [1 favorite]


Depending on his recovery, if reading or watching TV is tiring but he enjoys listening to audiobooks, you can gift a membership to Audible.
posted by acidnova at 12:29 PM on March 6, 2019 [4 favorites]


I've had surgery recently.

The two things I appreciated the best were:
1. Amazon Prime.
2. A Paid Spotify account.

If they're in a place where Amazon Prime is a thing, I think that'd be appreciated. Because sometimes, you just need a random thing *now*, and that'll alleviate a fair bit of stress over shipping, etc. Plus, Amazon Prime comes with a music and video streaming service.

I also really appreciated Spotify, because there were some days where all I could do was listen to calming music. They also have a fair amount of podcasts, if that's more their style.
posted by spinifex23 at 5:54 PM on March 7, 2019


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