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	<title>Comments on: Can I got back to school and have a life at the same time?</title>
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	<pubDate>Wed, 30 Nov 2005 20:56:52 -0800</pubDate>
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		<title>Question: Can I got back to school and have a life at the same time?</title>
		<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/28193/Can-I-got-back-to-school-and-have-a-life-at-the-same-time</link>	
		<description>How can I cut my work hours in half and have my pay scale down accordingly? &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; I&apos;ve been a full-time C# .NET programmer for a few years now.  I enjoy it, but I&apos;m pretty sure I&apos;ll be sick of it in a few years, so I&apos;d like to go back to school and learn some other cool stuff.&lt;br&gt;
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I&apos;ve tried going to school alongside working my 40 hours a week (which inevitably becomes 45-60 hours anyways), but that&apos;s too much for me to be doing at once -- it becomes very stressful for me, and I end up dropping the classes.&lt;br&gt;
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In a perfect world, I&apos;d work half as much and get paid half as much, go to school with my extra time, and still have some time to relax.&lt;br&gt;
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So I&apos;m looking for advice on what I can do to get myself in a situation like that (and whether it&apos;s even possible).&lt;br&gt;
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(I&apos;ve thought about independently consulting, but I fear the non-programming work that would come along with that.)</description>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Nov 2005 20:37:10 -0800</pubDate>
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		<title>By: scarabic</title>
		<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/28193/Can-I-got-back-to-school-and-have-a-life-at-the-same-time#443864</link>	
		<description>I&apos;m not sure what you mean by that last part. I guess you mean that consultants are often called upon to solve more rounded problems like &quot;build me a solution&quot; than you are interested in. Too bad you&apos;re anon, but I will assume you mean that you want to spend 100% of your work time writing C# code, solving C# problems, not business problems, not system problems.&lt;br&gt;
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That degree of &quot;embededness&quot; is rarer for consultants. I would suggest you explore the idea with your current employer. They already know you well and you already know them well and if there&apos;s any potential for you to spend 100% of your time solving deep C# problems with minimal other bullshit it&apos;s probably right there.&lt;br&gt;
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Of course you provide no details about your work so I don&apos;t know if you are 1 of 2 programmers like yourself at your employer, or 1 of 1000. The two circumstances have completely different considerations. &lt;br&gt;
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Aw, hell with it. If you want to email me privately, I will post more details here about your circumstances. Confidentiality guaranteed.</description>
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		<title>By: delmoi</title>
		<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/28193/Can-I-got-back-to-school-and-have-a-life-at-the-same-time#443896</link>	
		<description>You might actually make more cash as a consultant, because they get paid by the hour with no benefits.  I&apos;d be pocketing a lot more cash right now if I&apos;d been hired as a contractor, rather then on salary, but I have health and stock options, so I can&apos;t complain too much. &lt;br&gt;
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Anyway, if you can get a contracting position the pay you cash, and you need to take out taxes yourself.  So if you only make $30k/year or so you won&apos;t have to pay nearly as much as you would if you worked full time. &lt;br&gt;
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If I were in your positions, I&apos;d be spending my time on dice.com, monster, etc, basically looking for a contracting job.  Hopefully you live in a big city :P&lt;br&gt;
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Anyway, good luck.</description>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Nov 2005 21:24:53 -0800</pubDate>
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		<title>By: delmoi</title>
		<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/28193/Can-I-got-back-to-school-and-have-a-life-at-the-same-time#443897</link>	
		<description>scarabic: How can you guarantee that the emailer is the actual poster? They&apos;d need to email jessamyn or matt.</description>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Nov 2005 21:25:50 -0800</pubDate>
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		<title>By: scarabic</title>
		<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/28193/Can-I-got-back-to-school-and-have-a-life-at-the-same-time#443974</link>	
		<description>I can&apos;t guarantee, except to reassure you that no one is bored enough to falsify someone else&apos;s working circumstances in such a fashion. What does anyone have to gain? If the original poster finds I&apos;ve defiled their thread wth a fraudulent post, they can email matt and have it removed. The likliehood of fraud is so low that it would be better to ask for a cleanup, if necessary, than permission to proceed, right now. In other words: how about we only bother matt if there&apos;s a problem? Meantime, please give me a break as I post the following from anonymous:&lt;br&gt;
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&quot;re: cutting down work hours.&lt;br&gt;
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First off, I&apos;m not averse to solving non-C# problems, providing &quot;solutions&quot; and the like.  I can (and do) do that.  What I&apos;m afraid of is marketing my services, managing my paperwork, keeping track of my income, that sort of thing.&lt;br&gt;
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As for more details about my situation, I&apos;m one of about twelve programmers, and the company is growing right now.  Good help is hard to find around here, and new folks haven&apos;t been sticking around long lately due to the sort of fast-paced, short-deadline environment.  So, uh, I suppose I have some leverage.&lt;br&gt;
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Also, I meant to post that I&apos;m rather young.  Early twenties.&lt;br&gt;
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I appreciate the help.&quot;</description>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Nov 2005 23:53:07 -0800</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>scarabic</dc:creator>
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		<title>By: scarabic</title>
		<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/28193/Can-I-got-back-to-school-and-have-a-life-at-the-same-time#443976</link>	
		<description>Given your answer, I would say you should have a little leverage to negotiate a part-time situation. This is dependent on a couple of things:&lt;br&gt;
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1) Which industry you work in. If it&apos;s financial services or something very conservative then their culture just might not be open to special arrangements, period. &lt;br&gt;
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2) Whether they like you. If you have always done a fantastic job and have lots of cred with everyone, then you might work this out just fine. &lt;br&gt;
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3) How tactful/persistent you can be. If you are a pushover then most employers will probably push you over. If you have the persistence and tact to bring this up casually at first (with a superior you trust - see #2) and then build a case over time until finally it becomes a formal request, then, finally, a requirement, then you&apos;ll do fine.&lt;br&gt;
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You should bear in mind that getting paid as a contractor is different. You pay more taxes. Don&apos;t just cut your salary in half and ask for that. Consider health insurance, too. And giving up all perks. But then... I guess I&apos;m veering into &quot;work/thought involved in contracting&quot; territory.&lt;br&gt;
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Basically, if they&apos;re hiring, then the ball is in your court. You can ask for what you want. Worst case: they&apos;ll say no, and you&apos;ll be stuck exactly where you are.</description>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Nov 2005 23:59:30 -0800</pubDate>
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		<title>By: scarabic</title>
		<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/28193/Can-I-got-back-to-school-and-have-a-life-at-the-same-time#443978</link>	
		<description>Oh, but yeah, contracting is the only route. I guess I skipped over that point. I certainly don&apos;t know any employers who have a &quot;part-time employee&quot; program for programmers. &lt;br&gt;
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I do, on the other hand, know plenty of contract programmers.</description>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Dec 2005 00:01:32 -0800</pubDate>
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		<title>By: teg</title>
		<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/28193/Can-I-got-back-to-school-and-have-a-life-at-the-same-time#444025</link>	
		<description>Your employer may be more easily convinced to let you work half-time if you propose &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.workoptions.com/jobshare.htm&quot;&gt;job sharing&lt;/a&gt;. This usually means finding a partner in the workplace yourself, someone in the same boat as you, and it saves the employer from having to hire another part-time employee to fill in for you. Instead, they&apos;d need to find another full-time employee, which is presumably easier. (Lots of info on this on &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.google.com/search?q=job+sharing&quot;&gt;google&lt;/a&gt;.)</description>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Dec 2005 04:47:49 -0800</pubDate>
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		<title>By: jacquilynne</title>
		<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/28193/Can-I-got-back-to-school-and-have-a-life-at-the-same-time#444098</link>	
		<description>I know of at least one company that has a part time employee program for programmers - IBM. One of the programmers on my team is regular part time. Big companies may be where you want to look, anon, because they&apos;ll have more well developed HR policies around these sorts of things. They&apos;re also vastly more likely to do things like, say, pay for the courses you&apos;re taking in school if they&apos;re applicable to the work they do.</description>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Dec 2005 07:17:41 -0800</pubDate>
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		<title>By: andrew cooke</title>
		<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/28193/Can-I-got-back-to-school-and-have-a-life-at-the-same-time#444118</link>	
		<description>someone i worked with negotiated this with the company (small .com in scotland).  he just went to them, explained the situation and asked for what he wanted.  someone else i knew (in academia, uk) also negotiated something similar (same grant spread over twice as long for half the work per annum).&lt;br&gt;
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so it&apos;s certainly possible.</description>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Dec 2005 07:45:16 -0800</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>andrew cooke</dc:creator>
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		<title>By: jamesonandwater</title>
		<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/28193/Can-I-got-back-to-school-and-have-a-life-at-the-same-time#444180</link>	
		<description>I&apos;m not in your field, but I&apos;ve always worked for smallish companies who have all had &quot;permanent part time&quot; staff.  Either students, parents, people winding down to retirement, whatever.  They&apos;re all very smart, capable people who have no element of flakiness in them.  &lt;br&gt;
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I think bosses are open to this as long as scarabic&apos;s #2 (they - particularly your immediate supervisor - like you) applies.  I would have no fear about going to my boss with with a well thought out proposal - I love working here, will continue to give 100%, here&apos;s the hours/availability I would like.  As long as you mean it, mind you, if you&apos;re bored with what you do maybe they can tell.</description>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Dec 2005 08:38:39 -0800</pubDate>
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