Hot or Not
November 26, 2005 10:39 AM Subscribe
She's not sexy.
posted by the giant pill to human relations (97 answers total) 4 users marked this as a favorite
I've been seeing her a little over 3 months. She is great, she's smart, witty, sweet, and an all around good person. Bonus 100 cool points - she's an athiest. And she's really, really "in love" with me. I thought I could get over the weight thing, her little double chin, her belly, ... but it's killing my sex drive, and sex is quite a chore for me -- it's not enjoyable to me. If she lost about 40 pounds I could probably change my mind.
I really like this woman, I believe she would make a perfect partner. Just this silly weight thing or my problem with the weight thing. So I see a few solutions to this little dilemma:
1) Move on.
2) Get her to loose weight.
3) Change my idea of what is sexy.
1 would be the easy way out.
2 is just a temporary solution.(this would be hard because in her job she's around good food all the time and I know she is very sensitive about her weight.)
3 seems like an extreme mind fuck.
I'm sure that there are other solutions to this, I just don't know what they are.