August 31, 2014 6:39 AM Subscribe
I am a woman in my late 30s embarking upon an LDR. We plan to be together about half the time. After about 2 weeks of separation, I find myself going out of my head with sexual frustration.
posted by anonymous to Human Relations (3 answers total)
I am back to my collegiate habits of masturbating multiple times a day. While this is fun (I get a chance to watch porn he doesn't like, etc.), I also find it a bit of a drag. For example, I haven't had to jerk off at work since my early 20s, and that's a time in my life I don't really miss.
I've stepped up my exercise, which actually seems to make matters worse. I need to be "on" professionally, so I can't exercise to the point of physical exhaustion every day.
We aren't that oversexed when we're together. 3-4x a week, and maybe 1x a week masturbating (for me).
Opening up the relationship is not on the table. Yes, we have phone/Skype sex.
Suggestions? Thank you.