Should I go on a date with someone if I don't even want a relationship?
August 27, 2014 1:54 PM Subscribe
Is this a stupid question? Idk. I just got out of a 5 year relationship in May. I feel moved on from him but I'm still trying to put my life back together. And I don't want a relationship right now, bBut two guys have recently asked me out on dates. Idk what to say! I don't know very much about dating. I am 21.
posted by anon1129 to Human Relations (15 answers total)
The first guy I met at the mall last week. He was trying to sell me a product at a kiosk. We had a conversation and both felt a connection and he asked for my number. We've been texting. He wants to take me out on a date on Friday, not sure what we would be doing yet.
I said yes to the date but now I'm not sure because I don't even want a relationship. And he actually is from a different country, Israel actually, and he doesn't speak the best English and I couldn't see myself really going out with him. But he's very charming and nice.
The second guy I first talked to on okcupid. We have been texting for a few weeks. He just texted me today asking if I would be interested in grabbing a drink with him this weekend. It would be the first time we've met, probably just a get to know you type thing. I read something on my profile that made me think he didn't really want a relationship either.
I don't know what I'm doing. What should I do? Should I go?