NSFW: "Spit or swallow" - Discussion
June 22, 2014 3:10 PM   Subscribe

A guy that I've been dating and me had a conversation the other day: about oral sex. He asked whether I spit or swallow. My response was that sometimes I spit and sometimes I swallow, depending on the moment/mood. He then explained that he thought it was "rude" when a woman spits and that he feels "offended" when she doesn't swallow. I asked whether he had ever tasted his own cum and the reply I got was "Eww, no. That's disgusting". What are everyone's thoughts on this conversation?

Hi everyone, been reading for a while but have never posted on here before! :)

Just some background info: I'm female, we're both in our early 30s. The conversation at the time was just hypothetical - we have only had sex a few times. Oral was involved each time, however never "to completion" as we moved on to penetrative sex.
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