Does my coworker like me?
June 6, 2014 8:56 PM Subscribe
I know some people may judge me, but I am not looking for that...I already know I'm in a sticky situation. I've been married for 9 years but am planning to leave within a few months (I have to wait to move out due to financial reasons). Anyway, I started a new job about 6 weeks ago, and have been working very closely with a guy that I am attracted to. One day we were working a little late, and he closed the conference room door and started playing music while we were working together...he kept asking what kind of music I preferred, and would only play that. We talked a lot and that is when I really started liking him.
posted by Maggsie97 to Human Relations (20 answers total) 1 user marked this as a favorite
A few days later, I noticed that he kept touching my arm while he talked to me. But then I realized he did not know i was married...when it came up, he seemed surprised, and said, "You're still married?" Then when we were alone, I told him that things were bad with my marriage and I was planning on moving out. He immediately said he was there for me if I ever wanted to talk about it with him. Since then, he has kind of backed off a bit...and he has started talking about the dates he goes on, but says that he doesn't really like any of the women. I jokingly said he sounds like a player...he then said, "I like to have my fun, but I am totally committed when I'm in a relationship"...then he winked at me (?) Does it sound like this guy is interested in me? I am just very clueless about these types of things. I get the feeling he likes me, but not sure...