Male co-worker asked me to hang out with him and his girlfriend..
May 29, 2014 4:45 AM Subscribe
I have been sharing an office with a guy for the last month. We spend 40 hours a week sitting next to each other. Now he asked me to have a day trip with him and his gf on the weekend (just 3 of us). Weird or perfectly fine?
posted by sabina_r to Human Relations (37 answers total) 2 users marked this as a favorite
I am a single female and roughly the same age as my co-worker and his gf. I get along really well with him and we are constantly together at work. Lunches/coffees and chatting. We are not flirting so there is really no that vibe...but....
I am more insecure and jelaous than an average person. I know that if I was his gf, I wouldn't be too happy to have a female co-worker hanging out with us in our private time when they already spend so much time together. Maybe I am just different and this is a perfectly normal thing.
I think that it's a good sign that he is including gf in our friendship as in, he is not being shady. Still, I don't want to walk into a situation that will cause me drama and stress in the future. I have been trying to simplify my life and keep it drama free. However, he is quite persistant with his invite to the point that I don't know what to say. It doesn't help that I am on the fence if I actually WANT to go or not.