I haven't had a boyfriend since I was 16 years old. I've complained about that here, there, everywhere. I truly want to change that, or at least go on meaningful, fun dates. You've critiqued my OKC profile (I thank you for this! It's improved the messages I've received.) Now I'd like you to tell me why no one will respond to me.
I'm 21 (turning 22 tomorrow!). I want to date guys in their mid-to-late twenties--it's whom I'm attracted to the most physically, mentally, sexually.
I have been messaging guys a lot more frequently than I used to, as many had referred me to do so. I've probably sent out more than 10 messages over the last month.
Here are some sample messages:
To attractive dude in mid-twenties:
"Hi! Why does my being a vegetarian put me in the red (in your qs)?
:) Nice to meet ya, 93% match. "
To dude with wonderful smile and great sense of humor:
"I loved your profile, it made me laugh!
What a great smile =). How's your weekend going?"
To dude who asked messagers to state things they like to do in their message:
"I like to make delicious new snacks, walk around funny parts of the city and read. : P
I'm attempting to foster in myself a love for physical sport, but it really isn't working. I do like to run though!
What do you like to do? "
I'm overthinking this. I don't know what to say. No one's responding to me. It's quite frustrating! Obviously it's possible I'm none of the dudes' type, but I want to send messages that people will want to respond. I want to get dudes to want to go out with me based off my profile, messages.
This is my profileProfile Link
I'd just like some single-lady online dating advice, I guess. I don't know how to do this and the older I get, the more scared I am to make eye contact with dudes, to let guys know I like them, to show interest because I feel I'm constantly rejected -- IRL AND online. At least with online, I can ask your help.
Thanks so much.