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February 14, 2014 3:41 PM Subscribe
What is an effective way to speak to a new partner about bettering their ability to perform cunnilingus?
posted by anonymoosemoosemoose to Human Relations (19 answers total) 6 users marked this as a favorite
Having sex with a new partner. He's great! But really not great at oral sex, though he seems to be trying! I'm bad at teaching people how to do this well because of a combination of not wanting to hurt his feelings/offend him + my previous partners were already really good at it so I was too busy enjoying myself to notice exactly what they were doing that worked.
How do I bring this up? And then how do I offer tips when I don't know concretely what tips to offer? The rest of the advice on All Of The Internet is to masturbate, but hey I already do that and I'm not sure how what I do with my fingers correlates to what he is doing with his tongue.
Help! Anything helps! So far the only thing I can think is "please lick instead of sucking on that" but that doesn't seem very specific.