How to deal with a breakup when your girlfriend leaves you?
January 14, 2014 9:27 PM Subscribe
How to deal with a break up when your girlfriend breaks up after 9 months?
posted by Parh6512 to Human Relations (11 answers total) 3 users marked this as a favorite
So me and my girlfriend dated for 9 months. We had ton of fun, and had great time. Unfortunately, my poor communication skills with her made the relationship come to an end (see my previous questions). I told her that Im willing to go see a therapist to help me understand people better. But she broke up with me. Now that she's gone, I realize how much I loved her. I want to know what can I do to improve my self and make sure not to make the same mistakes in my next relationship. To better understand where Im coming from, you can refer to my last few questions. They pertain to the same girl. I didn't know this was coming so it is a shock to me. I obviously still love her and want to get back with her if I can.
We haven't talked for couple of days but she said "We gotta talk" the last time we talked. She also said we're done. Since this is my first break up, I get very emotional. Even when we were dating and I hurt her feeling, and it made me cry when I realized what I did.
Anyways, what can I do to make sure this break up goes smoothly as possible? And what can I do to focus on to improve my communication with other people in general.