How do you play with butts?
January 4, 2014 4:43 PM Subscribe
I am a straight male with a NSFW sex question under the fold.
posted by anonymous to Human Relations (21 answers total) 4 users marked this as a favorite
I am in a relationship with a girl that I've been dating for several months. Recently we've started exploring our kinkier sides. One thing that was brought up by her was the idea of anal play on me.
I have complicated feelings on the subject. I feel open minded towards trying it, but I'm not exactly eager to do it either. I kind of view it as something different to try and if I don't like it I will know it's not for me and don't have to do it again. But I'm also kind of scared/anxious by the thought of it and there's a lot I don't know.
Generally I view anal sex as icky. I've never stuck my finger/penis in someone else's butt. I've never stuck a finger into my own butt. I'm slightly curious to try anal from a giver perspective, but I've never done this either nor do I feel a strong urge.
One last thing. I have a very difficult time orgasming due to antidepressants. I'll have sex and it's fun, but I won't cum. I just eventually lose interest. I was wondering whether prostate stimulation got around antidepressant-induced anorgasmia.
With all that said, please educate me. Tell me everything I should know.