How am I not myself?
October 10, 2013 6:44 PM Subscribe
I've been aggressively single for a while now and I'm ready for a change. Step One: rewrite my OkCupid profile?
posted by modernserf to human relations (20 answers total) 5 users marked this as a favorite
I've been using OkCupid on and off for a long time -- sometimes dating a lot, sometimes in relationships -- but with pretty good luck at getting dates. However, I've been acting like I'm "strictly casual" when I'm really anything but. I don't mind starting casual and progressing to serious, but hookups and booty calls kind of bum me out.
My previous questions
were "how do I get laid"; this is "how do I find love."
My current profile
was written with the former in mind, and I suspect there's a lot on here that seems really overt and superficial, but it's hard to be objective. Do you get a sense of me as a person, or does it seem like an act?
(I recognize the irony in asking for help to appear less superficial.)