Feel bad about going to strip club, Help!
October 4, 2013 12:37 PM Subscribe
So I went to a strip club when I was pretty intoxicated and feeling lonely and depressed. Long story short I got a series of lap dances where you were allowed to touch the strippers. I feel tremendous guilt and shame about going there and objectifying women.
posted by mrdrummed to human relations (41 answers total) 5 users marked this as a favorite
I realize that I am not proud of myself, especially because at the time (probably because I was drunk) I was enthusiastic and didn't feel any shame while it was happening. I am not in a relationship currently so I am not worried about the cheating aspect. I just feel like I supported something inappropriate and demeaning. I know it would be dumb to go apologize to the women I received lap dances from but I feel like I should be doing something? Is there anything I can do? I am used to trying to make up for something when I feel shame about my actions but I feel like my hands are tied here, with the only solution I can come to being to never go back.