What to do about suspicion for a cheating fiancé?
September 26, 2013 11:59 AM Subscribe
Engaged to be married quite soon. Lots of money already out of pocket, personally and across many other people. Recently confronted with evidence of what, at a minimum, seems to be an inappropriate emotional relationship between SO and another person.
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There has also been a broader, relatively long term context of weirdness/secrecy about the SO's relationship to this person, with a suspicious trajectory where someone who was being talked about a lot is no longer being talked about at all, although clearly he is still communicating with this person regularly. Bottom line is that there is enough there that any reasonable person would be concerned (there was a pattern of long-term, mild concern that I more or less out out of my head, but a recent not fully condemning but obviously suspicious incident has put this all back into focus). I'm cosidering confrontation but don't have anything concrete, and am worried that it will just push whatever this is further underground. Stakes are high and the clock is ticking. What would you do?