Visiting a lover for the next week. Got a passive-aggressive note from the downstairs neighbors regarding our noise levels. We really want to respond in the next 2 hours, before we go out for dinner and get back tonight - what should we say to them? Help!
I'm visiting this um friend of mine for the next week. We've been having sex every night since Friday. Yesterday evening we were sitting on the floor of his bedroom and just talking (before the sex), and we heard/felt the downstairs neighbor bang on the floor.
We went out for a walk today, and when we got back just now we found this note
right outside my friend's apartment door. (The other side of the note just says: "Thanks in advance for your consideration. -Apt #1")
Putting aside the bit where no reasonable person living in an apartment in a big city complains about noise from people having sex over a holiday weekend, how do we deal with this?
I'd really love to find some way to have a practical conversation about this, and ask questions like: Would it be helpful if we played music to cover up the details, or would that just be louder and more annoying? Is anyone sleeping in the room below the other bedroom, and would it help if we switched rooms? And so on. But that seems socially unacceptable.
My friend mostly just wants to find a way to at least let them know that this is only going to go on for the rest of the week, and after that he'll return to his usual default quiet for the foreseeable future.
Should he leave a note by their door, or knock on their door and talk to them directly?
What should he even say?
I fly out of here in a week, but I don't want to leave him with an awkward and adversarial situation with his neighbors. But of course I also don't want to stop having sex with him (again, I fly out of here in a week!).
We'd really like to deal with this in the next couple hours, to minimize awkwardness when we get back from dinner tonight.
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