I have a crush on a bartender I work with and would like to ask him out on a casual date like coffee or a drink.
I am not a bartender and my work only requires me to interact with him at the beginning and end of my shift for a minute or so. Usually during these brief interactions we just exchange pleasantries. It is unlikely that I will see him outside of work and I don't have him as a friend on Facebook so, unfortunately, I will be asking him out while he is working (he will be away from the bar though). Due to our limited interaction at work, I'm not concerned with things becoming awkward.
My question is fairly similar to this
with slight differences.
We're both in college and in our early twenties; I'm female.
How should I ask him out (assuming I should)?
I don't drink coffee or alcohol. Is there another casual date idea I can suggest?
I've never asked someone out before, so I've never been rejected. What is a good thing say/way to react, if he declines?