Relationship expectations I have are to high?
August 23, 2013 8:22 AM Subscribe
I need to figure out whether I have high expectations in a relationship, or the guy I saw for three months is just a jerk, or emotionally unavailable.
posted by barexamfreak to human relations (34 answers total)
I have my own opinion but I wanna hear your opinion.
So, this weekend I am working on Saturday 9 to 5. He is visiting his family 2 hours away from our town. I asked him if he wants me to drive down there fter work so that we can all be together and spend the night there fter.
He said, no , it is crazy for me to drive back and forth so much.instead he wil come home after my work.
This sounds normal, but raises the question... Does he wants to keep me far away from his family? He told me he likes me to spend time with his family but not all the time. That's exactly how he said it... not all the time.
I feel hurt, what do you mean not all the time?
Anyways, I will just do my own thing and be happy. I am responsible for my own happiness after all.
I just feel distant with his family. I Facebook text his mom, she doesn't even bother responding back. I am used to a different family. My ex's family welcomed me way better and I didn't feel as neglected. But who knows, I might have stupid expectations , but time will tell.