Hermione Granger Problems...
May 21, 2013 5:45 AM Subscribe
How can I inspire people and act strong and firm and smart without letting go of wanting to also be protected and vulnerable?
posted by dinosaurprincess to human relations (17 answers total) 13 users marked this as a favorite
Lately I have been trying hard to become stronger and smarter and more assertive because I have dreams and goals and I need to be competent if I want them to come true!! But at the same time I think that this comes at the cost of being 'protectible' of people wanting to look after you. I don't know how to strike a balance between being COMPETENT and being vulnerable and feminine? Is even wanting to keep that vulnerability something I should be ashamed of as a feminist? What do you guys think?