Need some help with break-up closure!
April 8, 2013 10:51 AM Subscribe
I'd really like some help in working out whether my ex really liked me at all.
posted by hollygoeslightly to Society & Culture (19 answers total) 6 users marked this as a favorite
Myself and my ex dated for a very intense 7 weeks. I let him do all of the running, going at his pace etc. We knew he would be leaving the country a few months down the line so were just taking it step by step. He introduced me to his friends, spoke to his mom on the phone, hung out with his friends regularly. We'd see one another almost every day and were growing closer and closer. Her started getting chest pains and bad anxiety attacks - eventually he had to end it as he was in too much pain worrying about the future and all the what ifs (even though I would have gone with him).
So guys - if you''re not serious about a girl why let her speak to your mom, meet your friends, say to your friends you really like her, and state you want to have kids with this girl, you've been waiting all your life for her etc???
He says he finished it as he was scared of getting his heart broken as it had happened in past (gfs cheated, abused as kid, foster care, parents divorce) and he couldn't risk letting his heart be unguarded again. Just BS?