Popping out during sex.
March 13, 2013 11:42 AM Subscribe
I'm a lady and my boyfriend's penis keeps popping out during sex. How can we stop this?
posted by anonymous to health & fitness (10 answers total) 1 user marked this as a favorite
-He is significantly larger than average, both in length and in girth.
-This is a recurring issue; earlier, it was because my vaginismus prevented more than 1 inch of penetration, so we figured it would be better as penetration improved. Not he's fully penetrating me but is still popping out (and 'up', along my vulva) unless I stay perfectly still and he doesn't move too much.
-He says it feels as though his penis is going to pop out even if he's moving very little and is penetrating me very deeply, and that it feels like if he moves out too far my vagina just sort of 'propels' it out.
-We would cut back on the lube, but lots of lube is necessary to achieve any penetration at all, because otherwise any pain (from my over-endowed boyfriend) causes my vagina to clench (thanks to my vaginismus), and this prevents any penetration at all.
-He has never had this happen before with any other woman.
-We haven't tried doggie style but this happens in every single position we have tried.