Heart broken & snubbed
February 19, 2013 10:15 PM Subscribe
How can I stop thinking and worrying about this problem? I was going out with a women for 8 months (5 months long distance, she moved for a school), she was great except she never apologize for anything, unless I bring up. And we broke up after we had a disagreement on a topic and she said the following "may be you need to find somebody else if you need more sympathy on this."
That really hurt me, still does and the insult or harsh words keeps me up at nights. I am in
depression. Few weeks later I decided to put it all behind and we spoke and started out saying dont need your stupid apology, I tried to underplay my heart break, after few minutes of conversation she said you sound like you need the apology. I am just shocked how when some one can talk about apology without apologizing after saying unpleasent things earlier.
posted by globalbuddy to human relations (21 answers total)
I wish I could forget and get over the dissappointmnet and shame. I dont know if I am stiff over her comments because I am a guy and pride is a big part of any human especially when I treat her nice. Also Do you think she being a year older than me, has any play in this, we are in our 30s.
Any help please?