I really regret not hanging out with him
January 5, 2013 9:00 AM Subscribe
I really regret not going to the movies with him, is there anything i can really do?
posted by ohtimorousme to human relations (19 answers total) 2 users marked this as a favorite
A guy friend of mine (he's 26 and i'm f/25) i've known since 1st grade asked me if i'd want to see the hobbit with him (this was around the middle of December), and i stupidly turned him down. But i never even really turned the guy i down i just never replied. I blame part of it on my lack of social skills, and being introverted. I sometimes tend to freeze up and just not know what to say at all so i don't say anything. I've gotten better at this, but it seems to have come back out again.
I felt really bad about this and really, really regretted it all this time so i emailed him. I told him i was kicking myself for not going with him and if he was in the area if he'd want to go see a movie with me next week or something. After sending this i realized he wasn't in the area anymore right now since he's in the military. I don't even know if my email gave him anything to reply to but, i haven't heard from him yet and i sent it Thursday night.
And i know it really is my own fault if i had just said yes i probably wouldn't be dealing with all this right now. I really messed up.
Is there really anything i can do other than just wait and see if he replies, or next time he is in town text him and ask if he wants to do something?