Advanced sex for dummies
December 6, 2012 6:54 PM Subscribe
For christmas, I'd like to be able to make my girlfriend orgasm, and would appreciate some help.
posted by anonymous to human relations (27 answers total) 13 users marked this as a favorite
I've started seeing a girl who I think has to be the most comfortably sexual person I've ever met. She loves to masturbate and does so frequently, intitiates sex with me all the time, and will literally try anything in bed. I've done things with her that are probably pretty modest as far as kinks go really but I still can't believe I can say I've done in real life and not just fantasy.
The reason I've included that is not to brag or to turn this into a letter to penthouse but because as far as she's aware, my girlfriend's never actually had an orgasm, either alone or with someone else. It's definitely not for lack of trying or because she's uncomfortable or uptight. Very occasionally she says it's a little bit more intense and then she gets tired, but has never had anything happen where she can definitely say "I just came."
Are there any resources people can point me towards that'll give me some ideas on how to get her off? Or any specific sex toys we could try?
Failing that, is there really a percentage of women who just never orgasm but still enjoy sex anyway?
Thanks in advance for your help, it's an awkward question I know.