How long does it take for you (or your partner) to come from fellatio?
November 10, 2012 8:48 AM Subscribe
How long does it take for you (or your partner) to come from fellatio? I want to find out if the time frame with my partner is in the normal range or not.
posted by anonymous to human relations (36 answers total) 11 users marked this as a favorite
Fellatio is my partner's favorite thing, but he has never come from it with me. We usually do it for 15 to 25 minutes with no result, and then move on to something else. A few times I have kept going for 30-40 minutes, before finally giving up out of frustration. It's demoralizing for me to keep going and going and going and have nothing change (he says he's "almost there" from about minute 2 onward), and it makes me feel bad to give up after a while (when my mouth starts to hurt, usually) and see the crestfallen look on his face. After what point in time can I tell myself I've given a good faith effort, and move on to other things?
We are in our early 20s, and neither of us have fellatio experience with another partner, so neither of us have a frame of reference. Secondary to my question about time, is there anywhere I can go to find out how to do fellatio better? (I'm in Rockland County, New York, but would be happy to make a trip--several trips--to New York City to get beyond this. I want to make sure I'm doing everything I can before asking my boyfriend to change anything he's doing--it really is his favorite, favorite thing, and I want to be able to get him to come from it.)