Another "should we get back together" question
November 9, 2012 2:39 PM Subscribe
Did your flawed relationship work out?
posted by sunshine37 to Human Relations (27 answers total) 6 users marked this as a favorite
This was me: http://ask.metafilter.com/222999/Will-I-ever-trust-him-again
I DTMFA about 2.5 months ago and I still miss him and our life together. He was the only serious boyfriend I've ever had and honestly the person I was most comfortable with, including friends and family. I broke up with him because I felt like I "should" - he had crossed the line and therefore he had to go.
He owned up to everything and was heartbroken. He was (and has been) nothing but kind and accommodating during and after the break up. He has continued to pay me back for the money he borrowed.
I love him and am my most honest self when I'm with him. I don't want to lose the best thing that ever happened to me because I'm too stubborn to give it a chance.
My question is, did I make a mistake? I know this relationship is flawed, but if we love each other can it be worked out? I know he is open to working things out and he suggested counseling. Should I give it a shot? Are you in a relationship that was flawed by logical standards but worked out?