meeting your soulmate and not being able to have them
November 4, 2012 5:23 PM Subscribe
I've find myself in a rather precarious situation..
I met a guy last week, and fell completely head over heels..we connected on every level imaginable.
..but two HUGE problems:
1) He has a gf
2) He lives in Australia- quite possibly the farthest physical location from me
While I'm normally a rational human being, I've thrown all logic out the door because I've never experienced these kind of fireworks and I've had many meaningful relationships before. It's utterly spectacular. We've written each other daily & this doesn't seem to be just a fleeting moment. Separately, he is moving to the states within the year, and plans to break up with his girlfriend.
What should I do? I feel morally wrong carrying on with someone with a SO, but at the same time am not ready to unleash something so special. I actually do believe fate brought us together.
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