How can we both tie each other up?
October 30, 2012 9:03 AM Subscribe
I'm submissive. He's submissive. Now what?
posted by anonymous to Human Relations (11 answers total) 9 users marked this as a favorite
We're both fairly sexually inexperienced in real life, but have indulged in quite a bit of kinky porn/erotica/whatever. We've had (highly highly vanilla and really not that good) sex a few times, but finally got comfortable enough to talk about what we're into recently.
I love being told what to do, restrained, whatever. I've really only done that with one other person, and it was rad, but still, my experience is so limited. He really digs dominant women, and I'm not even really comfortable having vanilla sex on top - I get so self conscious.
I'm worried that this will turn into an incompatibility that will destroy our relationship (which has been going really, really well otherwise, and is new territory for both of us). I think we're both GGG, but not really into it, if that makes sense. Plus, we're both really new to this, so specific acts/scripts are welcome.