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October 18, 2012 5:44 PM Subscribe
My coworker is having a birthday party and invited everyone except me I think. I don't "GET" this, but I would rather sort of have an explanation in my mind.... Is this just a thing about work friendships?
posted by kettleoffish to human relations (24 answers total) 1 user marked this as a favorite
Five people from our office are invited. I have hung out with all 5 outside of work separately but not all together. We have a small office. It was weird because 1 of the 5 people came up to me during the day and said, "Are you going to X's party after work?" And then 2 of them were talking about it in the break room being like, "That's so nice that she invited us when we only really hung out that one time." And the other one is the girl's best friend and I know she's going and she didn't mention it.
I know, who cares right???? BUT. But, but but.
I don't know what the norms are for office/out of office parties and friendship so I thought I'd just ask about this. Part of me knows it doesn't matter.... but part of me is feels like this is some BS. I don't know.
That is all! Thank you!!!!!!