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	<title>Comments on: That beautiful room?  It's for you.</title>
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	<pubDate>Tue, 11 Sep 2012 11:53:08 -0800</pubDate>
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		<title>Question: That beautiful room?  It&apos;s for you.</title>
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		<description>Name That Story/Author: Latina mother asks husband to build rooms for new babies.  The last room--is special. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; I read this story some years ago and have been thinking about it a lot in light of all the anti-contraception propaganda out there these days.  I don&apos;t remember if it&apos;s fictional or not, and I cannot remember the title or author, but the plotline is quite vivid:&lt;br&gt;
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The story is told from the viewpoint of a daughter in a Latina family (not sure what country), and it focuses on her mother.  The mother&apos;s way of telling her husband that she was pregnant, yet again, was to ask him to build a new room onto the house for its upcoming occupant.  Many rooms later, she asks him for a special room, and gives lots of detail (for some reason, I think this room was painted blue but I&apos;m not completely sure of that).  When it&apos;s finished, the mother asks her husband what he thinks of the room and he says it&apos;s very beautiful, and she says, &quot;Good.  It&apos;s for you.&quot;&lt;br&gt;
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The narrator casts this as a beautiful example of her mother&apos;s unselfish willingness to sacrifice the comfort of her marriage bed for the overall good of the family.  As it&apos;s told, it i&lt;em&gt;s&lt;/em&gt; lovely in a way but the more I think about it now, the more horrific it seems, and all the more painful that the poor woman couldn&apos;t just use some protection and enjoy her (obviously loving) marriage.  I feel like this kind of thing is getting closer and closer to being forced on American women politically, and I&apos;d like to use it as an example. &lt;br&gt;
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So--does anyone know the details?  A link would be welcome if it&apos;s online anywhere; if not, I&apos;ll use the library.</description>
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		<title>By: February28</title>
		<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/224297/That-beautiful-room-Its-for-you#3243672</link>	
		<description>I believe you are describing &lt;i&gt;More Room&lt;/i&gt; by Judith Ortiz Cofer.  Here is a link to &lt;a href=&quot;http://books.google.com/books?id=BDgvLTrhTaUC&amp;pg=PA23&amp;lpg=PA23&amp;dq=Judith+Ortiz+Cofer+More+Room&amp;source=bl&amp;ots=p8E9hb8hkR&amp;sig=a_MMP9PttQV7sqAyM-8Y8zpD5Ds&amp;hl=en#v=onepage&amp;q=Judith%20Ortiz%20Cofer%20More%20Room&amp;f=false&quot;&gt;More Room&lt;/a&gt; via Google Books.</description>
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		<title>By: dlugoczaj</title>
		<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/224297/That-beautiful-room-Its-for-you#3243758</link>	
		<description>That&apos;s the one.  Thank you!</description>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 11 Sep 2012 14:41:51 -0800</pubDate>
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		<title>By: February28</title>
		<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/224297/That-beautiful-room-Its-for-you#3243937</link>	
		<description>Great.  It was not so busy at the reference desk today so I had time to track down the essay. Once I found it I read, enjoyed it.</description>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 11 Sep 2012 18:55:56 -0800</pubDate>
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