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	<title>Comments on: A short story where sex and conversation switch roles</title>
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	<pubDate>Sat, 30 Jul 2005 09:06:43 -0800</pubDate>
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		<title>Question: A short story where sex and conversation switch roles</title>
		<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/21915/A-short-story-where-sex-and-conversation-switch-roles</link>	
		<description>A friend of mine is trying to identify a short story that she read in high school where conversation and sex have the opposite roles than they do in our society today. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; That is, discussion is viewed as intimacy and is done only in private, whereas people will be physical with each other freely in public. She thinks that speaking at all in public may have been taboo, and the consummation of a relationship was an act along the lines of exchanging essays with a partner.  She does not remember much of the plot.&lt;br&gt;
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I&apos;ve tried google, but as you might imagine, these terms are a bit difficult to work with.</description>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 30 Jul 2005 08:42:39 -0800</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Turd Ferguson</dc:creator>
		
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		<title>By: willpie</title>
		<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/21915/A-short-story-where-sex-and-conversation-switch-roles#352897</link>	
		<description>It sounds a bit like &lt;em&gt;The Taboo of Oobat&lt;/em&gt;, though my memory may be faulty here.</description>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 30 Jul 2005 09:06:43 -0800</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>willpie</dc:creator>
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		<title>By: kindall</title>
		<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/21915/A-short-story-where-sex-and-conversation-switch-roles#352941</link>	
		<description>No, it&apos;s not &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.richpasco.org/oobat/&quot;&gt;The Taboo of Oobat&lt;/a&gt; -- that&apos;s about a world in which different body parts are taboo.</description>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 30 Jul 2005 11:53:10 -0800</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>kindall</dc:creator>
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		<title>By: GaelFC</title>
		<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/21915/A-short-story-where-sex-and-conversation-switch-roles#352960</link>	
		<description>I swear I read this too. I keep wanting to say it was in a collection of stories by an extremely famous sci-fi author, like Ray Bradbury, but I can&apos;t narrow it down more at the moment.</description>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 30 Jul 2005 13:08:53 -0800</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>GaelFC</dc:creator>
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		<title>By: Silky Slim</title>
		<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/21915/A-short-story-where-sex-and-conversation-switch-roles#352975</link>	
		<description>sorry, don&apos;t know the answer either. just reminds me of &quot;fantome de la liberte&quot;, where the roles of dining and defecation are reversed.</description>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 30 Jul 2005 14:14:36 -0800</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Silky Slim</dc:creator>
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		<title>By: pomegranate</title>
		<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/21915/A-short-story-where-sex-and-conversation-switch-roles#352989</link>	
		<description>It was a short story in a magazine for young women, I can&apos;t remember which one; and there was a boy attracted to this &quot;bad girl&quot; who spoke her thoughts freely? That&apos;s all I remember, but it does sound familiar.</description>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 30 Jul 2005 15:11:56 -0800</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>pomegranate</dc:creator>
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		<title>By: dhartung</title>
		<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/21915/A-short-story-where-sex-and-conversation-switch-roles#353155</link>	
		<description>This sounds pretty familiar, but it&apos;s been years since I read sf regularly. I&apos;m thinking that &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.feministsf.org/femsf/anths/anthsn.html#neweves&quot;&gt;New Eves&lt;/a&gt; sounds a bit like the anthology GaelFC recalls (one of the editors was 4E Ackerman). From the same site, &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.feministsf.org/femsf/bibs/recommended.html&quot;&gt;Feminist SF for Beginners&lt;/a&gt; and &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.feministsf.org/femsf/bibs/lqfaves.html&quot;&gt;LQ&apos;s Faves&lt;/a&gt; might jog a memory.</description>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 31 Jul 2005 01:43:40 -0800</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>dhartung</dc:creator>
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		<title>By: ruelle</title>
		<link>http://ask.metafilter.com/21915/A-short-story-where-sex-and-conversation-switch-roles#524786</link>	
		<description>Thanks for linking The taboo of Oobat. :)</description>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Mar 2006 05:38:41 -0800</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>ruelle</dc:creator>
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