June 30, 2012 8:12 PM Subscribe
I am a straight man and my manager is a woman. We work in an office environment. Sometimes she wears shirts that reveal a little cleavage. I don't want to look, but sometimes my eyes drift ... convince me this is something i shouldn't worry about.
posted by cupcake1337 to Human Relations (62 answers total) 6 users marked this as a favorite
For example, we'll have a one on one meeting, both sitting down, and i'll try to look at her eyes for a few seconds, then looks somewhere else. i try to focus on what she's saying, but i'm so distracted by trying not to look at her cleavage. i'm not sure if she can tell something is strange or not. it's a problem because i'm spending so much mental energy focusing on not looking that it's hard and exhausting to focus on what she's saying.
if you are a woman: is occasional glancing like the type i'm describing something you would take offense to? is it normal?