Boyfriend won't answer calls in front of me
June 17, 2012 7:06 PM Subscribe
I've been with my boyfriend in an exclusive relationship for 2 months, including dating time. Since early in the dating phase, I have noticed unusual behaviors from him. It has bothered me enough and I have made a plan to discuss with him. When he is out with me, he wouldn't answer his phone. Of course, he answers calls from his mom, sisters, friends...but there is a certain call he wouldn't answer. Without looking to see who's calling, he said "it's not important." But then (more than 1 hour later) he would check the voicemail/text and replied by text. My gut tells me it's from a girl and they could be going out together. Lately, his phone is always on vibrate. I see him only once a week due to distance and because I'm busy.
posted by fish123 to Human Relations (62 answers total) 3 users marked this as a favorite
I plan to confront him, tell him that I think he's seeing someone and ask him to show me the message conversations. If he refuses to show, I will walk away from this heartache. If he's innocent and loves me, he should have no problem showing me the texts.
My question is:
Is this a reasonable doubt? Am I blowing things out of proportion?
Should I confront him right now or wait until he intentionally misses the call and texts the person back to confront him, so that I have solid evidence right there?