Should I ask out a librarian?
June 10, 2012 6:21 PM Subscribe
There's a girl who works in my university library who I find really attractive. We sometimes catch eyes and smile, although I find myself looking her way quite a lot, so that might not mean anything. The other day she commented on a book I was getting out and recommended me another that she thought I might enjoy. Most days, though, I just walk straight past her to get a desk. She'd recognise my face, but does not know anything about me (apart from what I am reading, sometimes). I know nothing about her apart from what she reads (stuff I also know a bit about). How would you proceed? I've never 'asked out' somebody before. But would it just come across as creepy? Should I ask her out? Or just talk to her more? I feel paralysed! What would be the thing to do, hive-mind?
posted by aaronjames to human relations (31 answers total) 3 users marked this as a favorite