very painful orgasms
May 6, 2012 12:50 AM Subscribe
I love the whole process of sex, but as soon as I'm getting ready to orgasm, my ladyparts explode into pain and burning and it makes me super sad.
posted by iLoveTheRain to Health & Fitness (25 answers total) 1 user marked this as a favorite
I loooooveeee sex. It's phenomenal. However, I've never had a positive, painless orgasm during it and this reality is starting to wear super thin on me. Once I get into a position that I would typically be in while masturbating, or even any position with a guy's penis inside me, my bladder begins to experience severe pain and everything begins burning just as I'm in what should be the throes of a good orgasm. Immediately, my vulva and vagina swell up, feel bruised and yucky, and I typically get a UTI the next day. :(
My gyno can't explain this. What the hell is wrong with penetrative orgasms and why are they doing this to me? I can only orgasm usually by rubbing myself against a pillow by myself and even that's begun hurting too (though that's more because I am experiencing microtears even if I'm properly lubricated).
Right now I am in so, so much pain because I just slept with someone new and everything feels like it's bruised and broken when it should feel just fine. Help?