April 28, 2012 10:54 AM Subscribe
How best to get safe but meaningless hetero sex as a unattractive older woman?
posted by anonymous to human relations (15 answers total) 16 users marked this as a favorite
So I never fooled around before marriage, was married for a long time, divorced, two kids grown and gone now, my life's my own and its pretty good, I don't want a new man around, but I'm thinking that one thing I regret not doing in my life was having sex with more than one person.
Thing is, I'm over 50 and I'm not what you'd call a cougar I look like what I am which is a fat old Mom. If I was a guy, it would be simple, I would go and get a hooker or two in Vegas so its legal. But I don't know of any gigalos these days, not that service women. I have checked the internets but all my searches just show porn and spam.
I don't want to do anything illegal, and I don't want to do a guy as ugly and as old as me. I just want to find a guy who will have sex with me and not have to deal with all the bullshit about trying to look pretty for him, and if I have to pay him for that it's fine. I am Vancouver but willing to travel.
please any help?