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April 6, 2012 9:33 AM Subscribe
What, if any, are the good qualities of Indianapolis, Indiana?
As a former resident, born and bred, who spent the majority of my life there, I've never liked Indianapolis. Now, the yearly family visit looms. How can I make the best of my time there?
I really don't want to dislike Indianapolis, but the soul-crushing consumerism, sports mania, conservative political climate and terrible public services always made feel pretty bleak in the past. Thinking about going back always makes me want to run the other way, but I stick it out for my family.
I've seen and done all the popular things, I'm familiar with most of the city and suburbs, I've done the day trips. On top of that, the few treasured places I had are gone or gutted, or have been turned into shiny, soulless shells of the places they once were, IMO (Children's Museum, Central Library, IMA).
Is there some amazing place or annual event that I've overlooked? An area that's become a highlight of culture in the last 10 years? A swathe of new, exciting restaurants? Some hidden gem that's always been there that I previously never had the money or means to access? Historical tours? Secret hideaways? Anything? Or will I be reduced to an internet-dwelling hermit while not with my family?
posted by i feel possessed to travel & transportation around Indianapolis, IN (18 answers total) 3 users marked this as a favorite
When I was a kid growing up on the East Coast, we'd take our own yearly trek out to visit family in the Midwest. After we moved out here, the process was reversed. In both cases, my aunt in Indianapolis was a convenient first-or-last-night stop.
Until someone told me otherwise, I thought Indianapolis, and Indiana, was one of the most beautiful, fabulous and wonderful places around.
My aunt originally lived on Buckingham, near Butler, and I loved her house. We'd take walks down to that garden with the... bell tower or something? I dunno, but it was pretty and there was a pond. Then we'd go to the Children's Museum, and Broad Ripple, and Artsy Fartsy. I was in heaven.
So maybe you just need a little bit of a paradigm shift. I know there are crappy places and boring food and tire fires (okay, that's Gary) and all that, but it's really nowhere worse than going on a business trip. Plus you have friends and family there. Ask them.
The main issue here is that, while things have changed, YOU'VE changed, too. I know I'd see things differently if I went back to Indy now, as an adult, but I'm sure I could find something interesting. Don't get me wrong; I hear you on the hometown thing. I think my biggest excitement at going back to my semi-crappy hometown ("Hi. I'm in... Delaware...") is the thought of being able to buy stuff at the ratty old corner liquor store, which I once thought was SO FANCY.
I don't think it's about Indianapolis at all; I think it's about you.
posted by Madamina at 9:42 AM on April 6, 2012 [5 favorites]