Does she love me? I love her!
April 3, 2012 5:40 AM Subscribe
Found myself head-over-heels in love with my friend. Our interactions have gotten exceedingly flirtatious. Is she in love, too? What's your opinion? Details after the jump.
posted by thatgirl1985 to human relations (39 answers total) 22 users marked this as a favorite
She has pet names for me in her native language: one means "beloved" and the other means "clever one."
She clasps my hand during conservation and holds it longer than a friend would normally do.
She told me she had a surprise for me while she was on vacation. I was puzzled what her surprise could possibly be. Turned out SHE was the surprise as she showed up at work the next day while i was there. She came back early to surprise me.
When I thanked for surprising me, she said, "Anything to make you happy!" To which I replied, "Seeing you smile makes me happy!"
She makes out-of-left-field comments a lot about two women being in a lesbian relationship. She jokes with me that one of our female coworkers is in love with me. She always jokes about it in a positive manner. She said to me today: "When they ask why we are always together, tell them that we are in love!"
My face flushed at this statement, but I laughed and told her it was a great idea because our friends' heads would explode at the very idea.
I've always said that people will often joke about something to "test the waters" and see your reaction to the subject. I wonder if she is doing this with me.
She notices small changes in my appearance and compliments my hair and clothes. Her compliments are unique to me. She said I looked "garçon" and "handsome/beautiful" with my new hair style. She said my new outfit was "tres chic" and perfect. She calls me "pretty girl" and other such things. She touches me as much as I touch her. Very flirtatious. She doesn't do this with anyone else and neither do I.
She sits so close to me that our bodies touch. We touch each other all the time during conservation. A hand on the knee, the arm, the hand, the thigh. We feel very comfortable together. We discuss our feelings, hopes, dreams, problems, prayers, opinions, etc. at length and have moments where we just look intensely in each other's eyes saying a word. She will hug me, drape her arm around my waist, take me by the arm and walk with me, hold my hand, and rub my back.
We linger in our goodbyes and are reluctant to part ways. She relaxes with me and smiles and laughs so much. I am the same with her. Very much at ease.
We both invent lame excuses to call each other, too. It's ridiculous how long we've been pretending we're only spending this much time together in order to complete "work-related" duties. We just keep adding more work projects to the list so we never have to spend our evenings alone.
What is your opinion?