Husband getting texts from another woman
March 20, 2012 6:23 PM Subscribe
I just found a text from another woman on my husbands phone. Not sure what to do.
posted by my_thai to human relations (63 answers total) 11 users marked this as a favorite
My husband works an unconventional schedule and spent his day off today hanging out and drinking with a co-worker. When I got home from work at 6:30pm he was home but drunk.
I found his phone sitting there and I checked it. Whats weird is that in the 6 years weve been together i rarely check his phone but I did today. Obviously that means I suspected something but I cant really point to why because he goes out with his friends regilarly and I dont automatically check his phone. But today i did and found a new text from a woman's name saying hi.
So i confronted him. First he said it was nothing. Then I freaked out and started yelling and he admitted he was at a strip club and met this stripper who took his number and programmed hers into his phone. I told him I dont really beleive that a stripper would bother being nice to him after he left the bar. He swore that he didnt do anything with her. I told him he had to get out. Now im sitting here worried sick that hes been dating or seeing a hooker. Or that he would have.
And i refused to give him his phone back. Since he left I texted the girl back to see if she would give up any info. The exchange went:
Some girl: Hey
SG: Whats up
Me: Not much. Home.
SG: Im sorry Im gettin back so late.
Me: No problem.
That's it. No response since an hour ago.
I'm freaking out and I don't know what to do. And to complicate things I'm 7 months pregnant with our first child. I want to murder him but leaving him is not an option for me because I really cant have this baby on my own. I don't even really know what happened or would have happened.
Has anyone dealt with this before who can offer any advice?