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February 4, 2012 12:44 PM Subscribe
Hi all. Definite TMI/physical intimacy question pertaining to matters of the backside and heterosexual male turn-ons. Details after the jump!
posted by anonymous to Sports, Hobbies, & Recreation (6 answers total) 1 user marked this as a favorite
So, my s.o. and I have been together for almost a year; physical intimacy began 8 months ago. Background: I'm a chick near 30 and he's a dude mid-40s. We have crazy schedules and a partial-distance issue and appreciate time together when we can; don't have the opportunity to be physical as often as we'd like. He's very generous, considerate, and talented. We're relatively well-matched regarding the area of sexual experience and enjoy each other immensely in bed. I walk the fence between being a little kinky and not so much; he's been much more open to experimentation than even he was expecting. We also watch a lot of porn/send dirty texts/share pictures.
So we're rolling around naked the other day having a grand old time, and we're getting some mutual oral action on and he decides to eat out my derriere. Now, I have a strict "no-insertion, but everything else is a-okay near the butt" policy, and he's aware of it. But this was a first for us, and a complete first for me. I paused in surprise; but, it was actually pretty hot. So, my questions are:
What do guys generally think about giving a rimjob? As in, is it pleasurable to be a giver, or is it more about the partner's reaction?
Is this a turn-on for him, or was he thinking it would be a turn-on for me, or both?
Also, is this something I should offer to do for him?
That would also be a first for me, but I really get off on the idea of driving him crazy, and he LOVES touch and kisses of all sorts; he's a very physical person. Thanks in advance!