Im 21 years old, depressed, stressed, and never been in a relationship. Is it all in my mind or do I need to see a doc for this?
November 16, 2011 12:13 PM Subscribe
Im 21 years old, depressed, stressed, and never had a girlfriend. What am I doing wrong?
posted by Parh6512 to Human Relations (19 answers total) 2 users marked this as a favorite
This is my 3rd year in college and I live with my parents who are supporting and too caring. I have never worked and they have provided me with everything all along. I’m a friendly guy but when it comes to meeting girls, I get scared and nervous. I even get nervous when I try to initiate a conversation because I have nothing to talk about since my life is pretty much boring (school and home and nothing in between). I have been stressed and depressed lately because of this and as well as school (majoring in mechanical engineering). My friends have told me I look depressed too since my eyes are getting baggy and just from looking at my eyes. Because of all this going, I’m failing all my classes this semester as well. Sometimes, I just feel lost thinking I don’t deserve all the good girls out there. I have liked few girls but never bothered to ask them out in fear of rejection or loosing friendship. So am I missing something here? I’m an outgoing guy and loves to be around people but this has just bothered me all my life.