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November 8, 2011 11:18 AM Subscribe
When can we have sex without me seeming to be a slut???
posted by Amalie-Suzette to human relations (51 answers total) 11 users marked this as a favorite
I’ve been online dating for awhile now. In the beginning, I had ‘rules’. Absolutely NO SEX until date 3. Well, needless to say, serial dating just plain sucks. If I find I go out with someone who is not going to be someone I want to continue to see…but we make out, etc…sometimes, I will have (protected) sex with them and never call/text them again. They usually don’t call or text me again, so it’s all cool.
Here recently, I’ve been feeling like I’m ready to be serious and really look for someone whom I might be able to have a LTR with. What are some “rules” you follow as to sexual activity on dates? I know if girls give it up on the first date, they aren’t often seen as ‘keepers’.
FYI: I’m female, 39.