I wish I had asked you out instead.
October 18, 2011 3:05 PM Subscribe
Does it ever work in the wrong order?
posted by anonymous to human relations (34 answers total) 3 users marked this as a favorite
Has anyone ever gone from roommate (with someone you weren't friends with first) to dating, and had it work? I have a serious brain crush (not just lust) on a new roommate (and he's attractive and age appropriate to boot), and it obviously seems like insanity to ever cross any boundaries that would threaten a comfortable living situation for both parties. For what it's worth, I've had a long run at co-ed living situations and never had this problem come up before. Have I ruined my chances of ever dating him by signing a lease with him? Is a future relationship even possible if you started OUT living together? Has anyone else had experience with this, or advice?