Family counseling needed. How to do this when we live in different states?
September 18, 2011 8:54 PM Subscribe
Family counseling needed. How to do this when we live in different states?
My sibling and I have had a major falling out. Although on the surface it's over something fairly small, in reality (as these things so often are) it is about long-standing patterns -- trust, loyalty, power, favoritism. I want very, very much for us to be the friends our parents want us to be. I think we need counseling, someone neutral to help us work through what is said and unsaid. Assuming my sibling is willing (which may or may not be true, I don't know) how can we go about working with a counselor when we live in different states? And how do we find someone we both agree on?
My sibling and I have had a major falling out. Although on the surface it's over something fairly small, in reality (as these things so often are) it is about long-standing patterns -- trust, loyalty, power, favoritism. I want very, very much for us to be the friends our parents want us to be. I think we need counseling, someone neutral to help us work through what is said and unsaid. Assuming my sibling is willing (which may or may not be true, I don't know) how can we go about working with a counselor when we live in different states? And how do we find someone we both agree on?
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Living in different states, I would recommend individual therapy with the goal being to learn how to cope and deal with your sibling. The long term goal would be to repair your relationship with them; but for family counseling - I think your SOL on this one.
posted by lpcxa0 at 5:46 AM on September 19, 2011 [3 favorites]